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    • August 23, 2015 3:31 AM PDT
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      Is the decline of porn, the fault of dating sites?

      Is the decline of porn, the fault of dating sites? Not in the way you first thought.

       

      Travel back 20 years. No Internet of any influence and if you want sex and don't have a girlfriend, you have to go and get one. Bar, disco, pubs, malls, supermarkets all great hunting grounds for the Male of the Species who looks OK and can walk up to a girl and start a conversation. It was that or a hooker or your hand. 

       

      For maybe 12 years it changed little. Then Dating Sites made the whole thing of getting laid easier. To 2015 and its never been easier to get laid. There's even apps that tell you where your closest free fuck is. So why bother with Tubes, when Blendr dleivers the real thing? And once a guy finds a permanent friend with benefits. He's not going to be surfing Pornhub, or clicking on ads. Unless it's to find the next dating site. 

       

      Think of it as a slow gradual change, as 65 year olds fall off the tree, are the younger blokes not even replacing those leaving? Think of it as a trend over years, not months. 

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    • August 23, 2015 3:32 AM PDT
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      How are traffic and click stats performing over the last 2-3 years?

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    • August 23, 2015 6:34 AM PDT
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      You do reallize how most,if not all dating sites are scam ? :D

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      If you want to jerk off, you by into a porn site. If you want to bang someone locally, you check out a dating site. 

      Related, but different things. 

      All of us should be upselling dating sites from porn sites. If they are looking to jerk off, they are dong so because they can't get laid and want to. 

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      rochard said:

      If you want to jerk off, you by into a porn site. If you want to bang someone locally, you check out a dating site. 

      Related, but different things. 

      All of us should be upselling dating sites from porn sites. If they are looking to jerk off, they are dong so because they can't get laid and want to. 

      Lul wot? You claim how people which cant get laid are the only one who watch porn? So people in relationship/marriage not watching porn ?

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      rochard said:

      If you want to jerk off, you by into a porn site. If you want to bang someone locally, you check out a dating site. 

      Related, but different things. 

      All of us should be upselling dating sites from porn sites. If they are looking to jerk off, they are dong so because they can't get laid and want to. 

       

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    • August 24, 2015 5:55 AM PDT
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      Yes. How many people will jerk off rather than fuck a partner?

       

      The young are dating a lot more than they were in my day, of 10 years ago. We're talking about an time where girls demand sex as much as men do and not afraid to go and get it. Otherwise dating sites would of crashed by now.

       

      As for people in a relationship wanting porn instead of a fuck with a willing girl, that's such a tiny slice of the market it's transparent. Except for guys who want something their partner won't do, and that's a small group, except for bi-sexual men in a relationship.  

       

      IMO free porn has done all the damage it can do, except with new surfers going straight to free and never leaving it, and the old dying off. And from stats I found big Tubes are mostly losing traffic. What I need is a password to Alexa to do a large exercise on their stats over a period of years. They should be rock solid or growing. They should not be declining. The idea men go off looking at porn to jetk off for no reason, is absurd. 

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    • August 24, 2015 5:55 AM PDT
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      klentelaris said:
      rochard said:

      If you want to jerk off, you by into a porn site. If you want to bang someone locally, you check out a dating site. 

      Related, but different things. 

      All of us should be upselling dating sites from porn sites. If they are looking to jerk off, they are dong so because they can't get laid and want to. 

      Lul wot? You claim how people which cant get laid are the only one who watch porn? So people in relationship/marriage not watching porn ?

       

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    • August 24, 2015 5:57 AM PDT
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      What kind of relationship would it be that a man will jerk off to porn, rather than fuck his partner?

       

      21st Century ladies would go ballistic if they caught the husband doing that, instead of doing them. LOL

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    • August 24, 2015 8:13 AM PDT
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      PaulMarkham said:

      What kind of relationship would it be that a man will jerk off to porn, rather than fuck his partner?

       

      21st Century ladies would go ballistic if they caught the husband doing that, instead of doing them. LOL

      Jerking off is faster then sex :D It might sound like nonsense but apparently a lot of people doing it.

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      klentelaris said:

      You do reallize how most,if not all dating sites are scam ? :D

       

      Funny how many real women I've met over the years off those scams...lol ;)

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      Wizzo said:
      klentelaris said:

      You do reallize how most,if not all dating sites are scam ? :D

       

      Funny how many real women I've met over the years off those scams...lol ;)

       

      And some people win at bingo.

       

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      PaulMarkham said:

      What kind of relationship would it be that a man will jerk off to porn, rather than fuck his partner?

       

      21st Century ladies would go ballistic if they caught the husband doing that, instead of doing them. LOL

       

      There's alot of them for whole variety of reasons. I don't think that has changed over the years, now it's just easier to get porn. 

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      hardball said:
      Wizzo said:
      klentelaris said:

      You do reallize how most,if not all dating sites are scam ? :D

       

      Funny how many real women I've met over the years off those scams...lol ;) 

      And some people win at bingo.

       

      It's not like winning the lottery, plenty of guys and girls use dating sites to meet. I do agree though if you can't get laid in real life, likely a dating site isn't going to help. ;)

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      The best site I have ever heard of for meeting people is Plenty of Fish and it was never a "porn" site but a lot of folks get laid and meet partners without all click bait.  It is the Craigslist of dating.

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      hardball said:

      The best site I have ever heard of for meeting people is Plenty of Fish and it was never a "porn" site but a lot of folks get laid and meet partners without all click bait.  It is the Craigslist of dating.

       

      POF is a great site, glad to see Markus get paid for it last month. 

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      Wizzo said:
      hardball said:

      The best site I have ever heard of for meeting people is Plenty of Fish and it was never a "porn" site but a lot of folks get laid and meet partners without all click bait.  It is the Craigslist of dating.

       

      POF is a great site, glad to see Markus get paid for it last month. 

      Biggest dating site is now facebook anyway.

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      Wizzo said:
      PaulMarkham said:

      What kind of relationship would it be that a man will jerk off to porn, rather than fuck his partner?

       

      21st Century ladies would go ballistic if they caught the husband doing that, instead of doing them. LOL

       

      There's alot of them for whole variety of reasons. I don't think that has changed over the years, now it's just easier to get porn. 

       

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    • August 25, 2015 6:26 AM PDT
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      Therefore traffic to Tubes should be increasing. Is it?

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      I've said it before - content is stale and unimaginative today with anything from tube sites to solo sites there isn't anything that stands out as original 

       

      Dating sites are totally different - fill it out and wait until someone gets back to you.  While waiting go to porn sites to remember what to do when you're on a date

       

      If you're talking about trust factor - then maybe in that with recent events any use of a credit card will make potential customers nervous

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      TheLegacy said:

      I've said it before - content is stale and unimaginative today with anything from tube sites to solo sites there isn't anything that stands out as original 

       

      Dating sites are totally different - fill it out and wait until someone gets back to you.  While waiting go to porn sites to remember what to do when you're on a date

       

      If you're talking about trust factor - then maybe in that with recent events any use of a credit card will make potential customers nervous

       

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      Porn was stale 20 years ago. It's sex and with only a few ways to fuck, the only diffence is the situation. 

       

      I did have one idea I thought might fly. Erecting a stand on the street claiming to be recruiting models for fasion/lingerie work. The getting them back to a hotel where we were doing the "Interviews". Watching them strip, pose naked etc, with a male coming over to see who are "firm and suitable". Then getting them to have sex, together with a guy, or masturbate while others have sex. 

       

      Cost would of made a money loser. And there's the big problem, an idea that can't be cloned, doesn't cost a fortune and different enough to draw surfers in. 

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      I'm not sure I want to get involved with this debate.  lol

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      Set one up in Brno, paul.  Hire Ma Dalton to shoot it. Sell the content.
      PaulMarkham said:

      Porn was stale 20 years ago. It's sex and with only a few ways to fuck, the only diffence is the situation. 

       

      I did have one idea I thought might fly. Erecting a stand on the street claiming to be recruiting models for fasion/lingerie work. The getting them back to a hotel where we were doing the "Interviews". Watching them strip, pose naked etc, with a male coming over to see who are "firm and suitable". Then getting them to have sex, together with a guy, or masturbate while others have sex. 

       

      Cost would of made a money loser. And there's the big problem, an idea that can't be cloned, doesn't cost a fortune and different enough to draw surfers in. 

       

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      Our society is so sick, maybe it's not the end but just an evolution. 

      Talking with tinder users makes me think that I'm so old because it's not how I imagine finding a girl but even though .. it's just the new way people connect to each others. 

       

       

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